Parent & Family Association
Month-to-Month Adjustments for First Year Students
Here are some common month-to-month adjustments for first-year college students adapted from:
Helping your First-Year College Student Succeed, Richard Mullendore and Cathie Hatch, National Resource Center for the First-Year Experience and Students in Transition at the University of South Carolina, Columbia.
September/October
- Feelings of excitement
- Experimenting with new-found freedoms
- Frequent calls and visits home
- Becoming familiar with campus
- Homesickness and loneliness
- Anxiety about classes, professors, roommates
- Students ask, “Do I fit in here?”
- First assignments/test grades returned
- Romantic relationships from home often remain strong
- Experiencing the consequences of decision-making
- Roommate problems may arise
- First midterm exams at the end of October
November
- Midterm grades returned
- Excitement/anxiety about going home for Thanksgiving
- First series of campus-wide illness (colds, flu)
- Time management issues trying to balance the demands of school, work, family, and social life
- Roommate challenges may intensify
December
- Anxiety over preparations for finals
- Excitement/anxiety over going home for holiday
- Sadness about leaving new friendships and/or new romantic relationships for the holidays
- Financial strain due to lack of budget experience/holiday expenses
Continuing roommate challenges
January (J-term break)
- Satisfaction and/or disappointment with last semester’s grades
- Feelings of exhaustion
- Adjusting to being back home and adapting to old family rules and routines
February
- “Fresh start” mentality sets in with new semester
- Homesickness after break
- Relief may be felt at being away from home and being back at school
- Loneliness for relationships back home
- Feelings of cabin fever and depression with winter
- Potential increase in alcohol or other substance abuse
- Challenges with romantic relationship back home may begin to develop
- Valentine’s Day may increase feelings of loneliness and isolation
March
- Anxiety about Midterm exams
- Anxiety about finding a roommate for next year
- Excitement and/or disappointment regarding Spring Break plans
- Concern over winter weight gain
April
- Burned out feeling
- Spring fever
- Concern over declaring a major
May/June
- Final exam anxiety
- Stress over moving when semester ends
- Ambivalence about returning home for summer
- Sadness over leaving new friendships and/or new romantic relationships at school
- Concern about finding summer employment
- Beginning to realize how college will influence future life decisions